It was a dark and stormy night.
Maybe not for all four of us, because we were scattered across states and time zones, but the mood was low. One girl was braving her way through her husband’s deployment. The others probably had a long day at work or school. And then there was me- the mom exhausted after a long day of simply being a mom. And like some other recent time of back and forth messages late into the night, we found our way onto Twitter that evening, and the chatting began.
It didn’t take long for the talk to land on the types of wine we were drinking (or wishing we were drinking). That rolled into our brilliant idea to retire together on some warm, tropical beach with drinks in hand and lots of style, even for old ladies. Someone suggested we needed a name for this group, who had all blogged separately but seemed to connect so well, especially on that fateful night. When one of the girls typed out “Sisterhood of the Camo Pants!”, our name-and a hashtag- was born.
There are some things only military wives can understand. Somehow, four girls who haven’t so much as waved to each other in real life were thrown together in a virtual friendship that has expanded to other wives, too. When one of us would start typing out the status of our day, good or bad, there was always an empathetic response from someone, followed up by the promise of a mixed drink on the sand. And of course, at the end of it, the reminder that we were a different sort of a band of brothers- The Sisterhood of the Camo Pants.
Bravo Tango Tees happened to catch wind of this Twitter talk one day, taking the concept and running with it. They’ve created something much bigger than we could have ever have envisioned that night. Really, that’s the spirit of the sisterhood anyway- that we’re all united in this military life, be it active, Guard, Reserve, or even another family member watching from the sidelines.
I couldn’t be more proud to be a member- and I can’t wait to toast each other from that gorgeous oceanfront view someday.
Cheers, ladies.


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I love how this was started! Awesome name
Very fitting for this incredible “sisterhood” that we all belong to. I know I wouldn’t have survived the deployment without so many of you awesome ladies! And I’m so excited and proud to be a part of the Sisterhood of the Camo Pants
Wonderful post, Erika!
The New “Normal” recently posted..I Might Just Enjoy This…
you took the words right out of my mouth, but with WAY better wording

ines recently posted..mark. Giveaway
Isn’t the name great? Can’t wait for a tee design to go with it.
Thanks so much to Erika, Fran, Moira and Juli for partnering with us on this project!
Tango recently posted..Going across the border — Nacho Bake
Definitely glad that we all have each other. Not sure how I would’ve made it through some of those awful nights.
This is the best group of women who I’ve never met and I love them all!
Juli recently posted..Just Because…
I love this project! I can already see what a great thing it will be!
Sue recently posted..10 Day You {3} & Other Things
I am personally grateful to my friends that are there for me who also know what I am going through (being a milispouse too).
Honestly more people need to do a walk in her shoes, or wearing her pants. What I have found is that for the most part it doesn’t matter what branch your spouse is in, you will find someone who will care and listen and they don’t even know you. Virtual pedicures and wine dates are awesome

Mrs. Y recently posted..Relationships
So excited to have been asked to be part of this group. You guys have no idea how much that means to me! I’m looking forward to meeting more sisters throughout the year – especially with deployment coming up quickly!
I LOVE this idea!
And the name.. it all goes together so well. I can’t wait to read more!
Amanda recently posted..A glorious day.
Lovely post!
Chantal recently posted..Florida Trip
Great post Erika! A wonderful way to start of such a cool project.
What a great group. It’s awesome that you ladies found each other! I loved reading how your group started.